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		<title>By: electric heating uk</title>
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		<dc:creator>electric heating uk</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 09 Jan 2010 04:24:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>:high: Most employers who offer such services will hand out brochures to keep their employees informed. I wouldn&#039;t take offense to it unless you feel that maybe your supervisor picked up on something that maybe you&#039;re not aware of. If this is the case, take the brochure and gesture as a kind way of knowing someone cares.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p> <img src='http://www.extremejohn.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_joint.gif' alt=':high:' class='wp-smiley' />  Most employers who offer such services will hand out brochures to keep their employees informed. I wouldn&#8217;t take offense to it unless you feel that maybe your supervisor picked up on something that maybe you&#8217;re not aware of. If this is the case, take the brochure and gesture as a kind way of knowing someone cares.</p>
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		<title>By: eSINess</title>
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		<dc:creator>eSINess</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Dec 2009 01:16:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;a href=&quot;#comment-17216&quot;&gt;@Keith@Norman Rockwell Art&lt;/a&gt;, 

Speaking of that. Calling someone out has hurt me too. Well, I&#039;ve actually broken a few of these rules. There&#039;s a lot of sensitive people in this world. My biggest adjustment would probably have to be learning that everyone is not like I am. A good punch in the stomach is good for some people, but a ticking time bomb for others. From I see down the line of Jb&#039;s list is a consistency in making sure opinions and feelings(our own and the employee) stay out the door. That can sometimes be harder said than done.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="#comment-17216">@Keith@Norman Rockwell Art</a>, </p>
<p>Speaking of that. Calling someone out has hurt me too. Well, I&#8217;ve actually broken a few of these rules. There&#8217;s a lot of sensitive people in this world. My biggest adjustment would probably have to be learning that everyone is not like I am. A good punch in the stomach is good for some people, but a ticking time bomb for others. From I see down the line of Jb&#8217;s list is a consistency in making sure opinions and feelings(our own and the employee) stay out the door. That can sometimes be harder said than done.</p>
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		<title>By: Keith@Norman Rockwell Art</title>
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		<dc:creator>Keith@Norman Rockwell Art</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 01 Dec 2009 19:40:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;a href=&quot;#comment-17240&quot;&gt;@Extreme John&lt;/a&gt;,  Y&#039;know, I love the guy, but I don&#039;t always like him. I don&#039;t even know if he is aware that he upsets me so much sometimes.

Leave the comment. He probably wouldn&#039;t even know who it referred to.
.-= Keith@Norman Rockwell Art&#180;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.best-norman-rockwell-art.com/1922-12-14-clintonville-gazette-advertisement-western-newspaper-union-santas-workshop.html&quot;&gt;Nov 29, Santa&#039;s Workshop by Norman Rockwell from 12/14/1922 Clintonville Gazette&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="#comment-17240">@Extreme John</a>,  Y&#8217;know, I love the guy, but I don&#8217;t always like him. I don&#8217;t even know if he is aware that he upsets me so much sometimes.</p>
<p>Leave the comment. He probably wouldn&#8217;t even know who it referred to.<br />
<span class="cluv"> Keith@Norman Rockwell Art&#180;s last blog ..<a href="http://www.best-norman-rockwell-art.com/1922-12-14-clintonville-gazette-advertisement-western-newspaper-union-santas-workshop.html">Nov 29, Santa&#8217;s Workshop by Norman Rockwell from 12/14/1922 Clintonville Gazette</a> <span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip" alt="My ComLuv Profile" border="0" width="16" height="14" src="http://www.extremejohn.com/wp-content/plugins/commentluv/images/littleheart.gif"/></span></span></p>
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		<title>By: Vote on this article at blogengage.com</title>
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		<dc:creator>Vote on this article at blogengage.com</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Nov 2009 15:37:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;strong&gt; 9 Tips to Proper Employee Counseling...&lt;/strong&gt;

Tips to ensure proper employee counseling and aid in employee growth through proper correction....</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong> 9 Tips to Proper Employee Counseling&#8230;</strong></p>
<p>Tips to ensure proper employee counseling and aid in employee growth through proper correction&#8230;.</p>
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		<title>By: Extreme John</title>
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		<dc:creator>Extreme John</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Nov 2009 00:57:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;a href=&quot;#comment-17168&quot;&gt;@Alan @ Glass Pipes&lt;/a&gt;, exactly. You see that a lot in younger associates that get angry and take something work related personal. Craziness.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="#comment-17168">@Alan @ Glass Pipes</a>, exactly. You see that a lot in younger associates that get angry and take something work related personal. Craziness.</p>
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		<title>By: Extreme John</title>
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		<dc:creator>Extreme John</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Nov 2009 00:42:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;a href=&quot;#comment-17169&quot;&gt;@Surender Sharma&lt;/a&gt;, thank you I appreciate you stopping by and contributing to this post, I know it&#039;s not for everyone but for those managers that can learn from it I hope they do.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="#comment-17169">@Surender Sharma</a>, thank you I appreciate you stopping by and contributing to this post, I know it&#8217;s not for everyone but for those managers that can learn from it I hope they do.</p>
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		<title>By: Extreme John</title>
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		<dc:creator>Extreme John</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Nov 2009 00:27:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;a href=&quot;#comment-17216&quot;&gt;@Keith@Norman Rockwell Art&lt;/a&gt;, haha would you rather me delete your comment so you can point him in the right direction and correct his wrongs?

It sucks that he put you through something like that.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="#comment-17216">@Keith@Norman Rockwell Art</a>, haha would you rather me delete your comment so you can point him in the right direction and correct his wrongs?</p>
<p>It sucks that he put you through something like that.</p>
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		<title>By: randy bragg</title>
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		<dc:creator>randy bragg</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Nov 2009 22:24:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>O John you are more then just a crazy man with a point, your content has more value then just being a Glen Beck fan. :p I need a product to sell John, you have anything you want to sell on my site? Have a great Thanksgiving John.....From one soldier boy from Belgium.......SSG Bragg says good day and God bless....
.-= randy bragg&#180;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/VoiceOfBragg/~3/wZwzx3Uhd4g/&quot;&gt;A New World Order?&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>O John you are more then just a crazy man with a point, your content has more value then just being a Glen Beck fan. :p I need a product to sell John, you have anything you want to sell on my site? Have a great Thanksgiving John&#8230;..From one soldier boy from Belgium&#8230;&#8230;.SSG Bragg says good day and God bless&#8230;.<br />
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		<title>By: Keith@Norman Rockwell Art</title>
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		<dc:creator>Keith@Norman Rockwell Art</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Nov 2009 19:18:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>When you call an employee out in front of other employees, that employee gets resentful, or at least I do and did. Lack of confidentiality is unproductive, unprofessional, ineffective and counter-productive. After that tirade by my boss, I have stopped covering other peoples asses or handling their problems. I prefer to cover my own now. I would not feel this way had ANY common sense or professional courtesy been utilized that day. The sad thing is that the other employees tell me that this place goes straight to hell when I am not here. So apparently the tirade was even more counter-productive than many of his others.

Great advice, John. If not for my comment, I might have recommended it to my boss.
.-= Keith@Norman Rockwell Art&#180;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.best-norman-rockwell-art.com/national-museum-of-natural-history.html&quot;&gt;Nov 22, National Museum of Natural History, Smithsonian Institute, is home to Norman Rockwell painting&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When you call an employee out in front of other employees, that employee gets resentful, or at least I do and did. Lack of confidentiality is unproductive, unprofessional, ineffective and counter-productive. After that tirade by my boss, I have stopped covering other peoples asses or handling their problems. I prefer to cover my own now. I would not feel this way had ANY common sense or professional courtesy been utilized that day. The sad thing is that the other employees tell me that this place goes straight to hell when I am not here. So apparently the tirade was even more counter-productive than many of his others.</p>
<p>Great advice, John. If not for my comment, I might have recommended it to my boss.<br />
<span class="cluv"> Keith@Norman Rockwell Art&#180;s last blog ..<a href="http://www.best-norman-rockwell-art.com/national-museum-of-natural-history.html">Nov 22, National Museum of Natural History, Smithsonian Institute, is home to Norman Rockwell painting</a> <span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip" alt="My ComLuv Profile" border="0" width="16" height="14" src="http://www.extremejohn.com/wp-content/plugins/commentluv/images/littleheart.gif"/></span></span></p>
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		<title>By: James Moralde</title>
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		<dc:creator>James Moralde</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Nov 2009 09:25:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;ve worked in a bank for more than 10 years prior to my current job and I know that the people down at HR knew about these 9 points. However, I can not say that they adhere to these guidelines strictly. Well, they&#039;re only human after all. What I mean is that I&#039;ve noticed that they, or at least most of them, blatantly disregarded tip #2. When one gets to work in a closesly knit environment like the bank i worked for previously, the HR people sometimes lose that neutrality which is badly needed in their office to the point that some unscrupulous co-workers who have selfish agendas of their own (and who have intentionally developed friendly relations with them) can manipulate them into believing anything they say especially when it comes to judging their fellow employees. Thus, when a counseling session comes, other points gets sacrificed like professionalism, sticking to facts, etc.

Hey, I&#039;m not that naughty, but I did get my share of counseling there. :)
.-= James Moralde&#180;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://moralde.com/open_basedir-restriction-in-effect/&quot;&gt;Open_Basedir Restriction In Effect&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve worked in a bank for more than 10 years prior to my current job and I know that the people down at HR knew about these 9 points. However, I can not say that they adhere to these guidelines strictly. Well, they&#8217;re only human after all. What I mean is that I&#8217;ve noticed that they, or at least most of them, blatantly disregarded tip #2. When one gets to work in a closesly knit environment like the bank i worked for previously, the HR people sometimes lose that neutrality which is badly needed in their office to the point that some unscrupulous co-workers who have selfish agendas of their own (and who have intentionally developed friendly relations with them) can manipulate them into believing anything they say especially when it comes to judging their fellow employees. Thus, when a counseling session comes, other points gets sacrificed like professionalism, sticking to facts, etc.</p>
<p>Hey, I&#8217;m not that naughty, but I did get my share of counseling there. <img src='http://www.extremejohn.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /><br />
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		<title>By: Surender Sharma</title>
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		<dc:creator>Surender Sharma</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Nov 2009 06:46:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi John,
Every business need employees but main thing is to cater their brain and thoughts at one place.It&#039;s a difficult these days.But all things can be handled by with  seminars and counseling.It works well for both employer and employee.
Your idea is really wonderful and more informative for this.
.-= Surender Sharma&#180;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/technogati/sWzQ/~3/bhfV6j-AhIk/how-to-get-more-comments-on-your-blog.html&quot;&gt;7 Ways To Get More Comments On Your Blog&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi John,<br />
Every business need employees but main thing is to cater their brain and thoughts at one place.It&#8217;s a difficult these days.But all things can be handled by with  seminars and counseling.It works well for both employer and employee.<br />
Your idea is really wonderful and more informative for this.<br />
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		<title>By: Alan @ Glass Pipes</title>
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		<dc:creator>Alan @ Glass Pipes</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Nov 2009 06:33:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks for the post.  I don&#039;t have a big enough business yet to worry about this but the process you have outlined is very important.  It&#039;s really important to stay consistent and apply the rules equally to all employees.  Also, the last point about not holding grudges is very important...I can&#039;t tell you how many companies I have worked for in the past where the boss and the employee destroyed their working relationship because neither can move on....shit happens, fix it and move on.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for the post.  I don&#8217;t have a big enough business yet to worry about this but the process you have outlined is very important.  It&#8217;s really important to stay consistent and apply the rules equally to all employees.  Also, the last point about not holding grudges is very important&#8230;I can&#8217;t tell you how many companies I have worked for in the past where the boss and the employee destroyed their working relationship because neither can move on&#8230;.shit happens, fix it and move on.</p>
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